If you lack self-control, you’ll be enslaved by your impulses.  If you lack self-awareness, you’ll be manipulated by society...
A highly evolved human lives on his own terms. He acts consciously, with a stoic readiness to accept whatever consequences come with his actions.

That is the hallmark of responsibility & maturity... Unless you attain peak levels of sovereignty - people will go on dictating how you should live your life, and what theories you should believe in. Your instinct, intuition & intelligence are innate gifts from nature. When sharpened to their utmost sensitivity, you’ll unlock an invaluable safe of wisdom & insights. Reawaken your inner guide...